For the seemingly few who are in healthy, happy relationships Valentine’s Day can provide romantic inspiration. But for everyone else it can be an annoying reminder that they don’t have that kind of loving bliss. If you are finding yourself frustrated or lovelorn this Valentine’s Day I want to offer you some food for thought. First, honestly answer this quiz question: If … [Read more...] about Un-Happy Valentine’s Day?
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Listening skills are an essential part of healthy communication and are necessary components for building lasting relationships. Truly feeling heard is a powerful experience. It makes you feel cared for, validated, and important. We are faced with so many distractions in our lives that when someone sits down and really listens, it can make you feel really connected. And if you … [Read more...] about Listening Your Way to a Healthy Relationship
Instant chemistry blows away our best interest sometimes - it messes with our "man-picker" and it works against us. In other words, people often choose chemistry over the whole package. Chemistry alters our perception and causes us to attach meaning to things that are often inaccurate. For example, if you feel instant chemistry with a man, you may assume that he's available … [Read more...] about The Dangers of Instant Chemistry in Dating
Here’s a question from Jessica, who’s experiencing something we can all relate to. The Question: “Hi Helena, It seems like all the men I date always end up disappointing me in some way. It starts off great, and then after a couple weeks they either say the wrong thing, forget to call, or they seem to get busy and stop making plans with me and everything just fizzles … [Read more...] about Dating Advice: Who You Are Attracting and How You Can Improve on it
Being romantic doesn’t come naturally to everyone. It’s especially harder for men. Here are 7 ideas for any man who is struggling to be romantic and doesn’t know where to start. Use Technology , try Oh Don’t Forget App for Android. This free app is a gem. It gives you the ability to schedule text message which can be sent to someone else or yourself. The perfect app to … [Read more...] about Tips For the Unromantic on How To Be Romantic