For the seemingly few who are in healthy, happy relationships Valentine’s Day can provide romantic inspiration. But for everyone else it can be an annoying reminder that they don’t have that kind of loving bliss. If you are finding yourself frustrated or lovelorn this Valentine’s Day I want to offer you some food for thought. First, honestly answer this quiz question: If … [Read more...] about Un-Happy Valentine’s Day?
Advice for Men
Dating With Children, When is it Appropriate for My Date(s) to Meet My Kids
Q: I am a single parent about to start dating again. When is it appropriate for my date(s) to meet my kids? A: Good for you for getting back out to date! But I think you need to keep dating and parenting separate. I don’t think it’s ever appropriate to introduce your kids to a date. Only when a date becomes an exclusive relationship with serious long-term potential is … [Read more...] about Dating With Children, When is it Appropriate for My Date(s) to Meet My Kids
Five Ways to Create and Maintain Stability In Relationships with BPD Partners
The shock of being threatened with a knife by his twenty-three year old wife Charlene hit Jackson really hard. He arranged a separation from Charlene to recover, and to begin to feel safe again. The toughest moments came when he wanted to hear her voice that had encouraged him so often. Growing up in a home with a devouring mother who put him down when he wanted to think and … [Read more...] about Five Ways to Create and Maintain Stability In Relationships with BPD Partners
Learn How To Choose a Better Partner For You.
If you look at your past relationships can you see many similar qualities in your ex’s, even though they were different kinds of people? If so, you might either be choosing the unhealthy version of same type, or you might just be choosing a type that doesn’t match for you. As explained in the video, if you are choosing someone that doesn’t force you to grow, or is just easy … [Read more...] about Learn How To Choose a Better Partner For You.
Breakup Advice – Are You Finding it Hard to go on Without the Love of Your life?
Finding the love of your life is an incredible high, especially if on some level you view him or her as above your typical dating league. So naturally, when it doesn’t work out or worse, it suddenly ends without warning, it may feel like you will never find anyone better. However, it is only that kind of thinking that will prevent you from finding anyone new—I promise … [Read more...] about Breakup Advice – Are You Finding it Hard to go on Without the Love of Your life?