What You Didn’t Want To Hear About Cheating & Relationships – The Hard Stats

Who hasn’t dated someone who has  been caught cheating? Before you think it only happens to you read this.

Cheating Facts

What the Therapists Say  about Cheating– Two Different Opinions

Approximately 40% of men seek sexual satisfaction outside their relationships, estimates Kat Hertlein, Ph.D., professor of human development at the University of Nevada – Las Vegas and a marriage and family therapist.

About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage “Monogamy Myth”, Therapist Peggy Vaugn


What Government Studies Says About Cheating

That number hasn’t changed much since 1950, when the famous Kinsey sex study found that 50% of U.S. men cheat at some point in their marriages.

 

Who Admits to Cheating – Men Versus Women

According to Men’s Health Best Life 2003 study on 5% of men admit they are cheating. Which leaves 35% denying it.

According to Men’s Health Best Life 2003 study 4.55% of women admit cheating a year later another study done by Oprah Magazine concluded 15% of women cheat.

 

The Wedding Ring

1 in 3 men take off their wedding rings when out alone without their wives – Study Divorce Peers

 

Rise in Cheating Women – They Are Catching Up to Men Standards

As women become more financially independent, women are starting to act more like men with respect to infidelity

 

I Will Never Get Caught Cheating– Think Again.

If you are male don’t think you will get caught because 80% of you will according to Divorce Peers Study.


Why Did You Do It?  Weren’t You Rationally Thinking?

The initial decision to be unfaithful is rarely ever a rational choice; instead infidelity is usually driven by circumstances and one’s emotions. In fact, most people are surprised by their own behavior at the start of an affair 

 

Does Age Matter When it Comes to Cheating?

Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful. According to Wallstreet Journal Study Infidelity is becoming more common among people under 30. Many experts believe this increase in cheating is due to greater opportunity (time spent away from a spouse) and young people developing the habit of having multiple sexual partners before they get married

 

Can a Marriage Be Saved After One Cheats?

The good thing 64% of couples preserves their marriage after an affair. However 78% of couples who remain married despite the affair later describe the marriage as unhappy and empty – Study Divorce Peers

 

Lower Then You Think

17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity.


Don’t Feel Like a Fool
You Are Not Alone When it Comes to Cheating

70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses’ extramarital activity. There are no definitive “signs of cheating.” But, in hindsight you will always find them.

 

Who Is Your Daddy?

Research consistently shows that 2 to 3% of all children are the product of infidelity. And most of these children are unknowingly raised by men who are not their biological fathers. DNA testing is finally making it easy for people to check the paternity of their children

 


Cheating Political Leaders

50 percent of Americans say President Clinton’s adultery makes his moral standard “about the same as the average married man,” according to a Time-CNN poll.

Ironically With All the Stats Above
90% of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong

This article is dedicated to the man who cheated on me while I was at my grandmothers funeral. At the end his cheating was a blessing.

 

Cheating – Are Things Getting Suspicious?

Has your spouse all of a sudden started to be distant? Have they started to take overtime? Has your spouse quick including your involvement or input in plans they make? Do they make excuses to e away from you? Sure, these could be any number of things, but right now you are probably looking towards them being signs of cheating. There are many husbands and wives that know about that ill feeling when they have reason to believe that their partner is having an extramarital affair. Right now, you have a bad suspicion in the pit of your stomach that your partner is cheating on you and it will not go away, no matter what you do. How do you go about proving it, without letting your spouse know about the suspicions you are having. Today, in this article titled: “Extramarital Affair – Cheating – How to Catch a Cheating Spouse, ” we are going to tell you just what you need to know.

In this day and age, with technology booming, the Internet is the starting pointing for many extramarital affairs out there. You have those chat rooms called “Married but looking” and those dating sites are rampant.

It’s not just men looking for relationships outside of their marriage as there are plenty of women that frequent those rooms as well. Those escort forums and escort websites are unfortunate, but sadly they are popular places for anyone who is thinking about having an affair on their spouse.

The Internet plays a big role in helping out that unfaithful wife or husband and today, there are many services that have been designed in order to track and catch those partners that are not exactly faithful.

There are online fidelity investigation services that do not need much information (sometimes just an e-mail address) and they can find, track and trap your cheating spouse.

Sure, you could always try to do the investigation yourself, or you may want to hire a professional private investigator to help you out with the suspicions of your spouse. However, if that relationship is purely online, there may be a good chance that you can catch them in the act yourself.

When it comes to the online investigation services that are available, you are going to find it easy to catch that spouse that is cheating (or testing the waters). Through a number of investigations, the investigator will be looking for your spouse on ads and married but looking type of web sites.

As we said, the Internet is generally a starting point for that affair, so an online fidelity investigation service may be the most effective and cheapest way for you to go about catching your spouse.

If you find that your spouse is having an extramarital affair, then that obviously means that your marriage is in trouble. The affair may appear to be a short-term solution to the problems in your marriage, but the smartest move right now would be for you to find ways that you can go about mending that marriage and get back into that loving relationship once again.

The smartest move right now would be for you to stop being a Cheat and get back into that loving relationship once again. For more information, check out http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com.