The cost of dating a woman is skyrocketing and out of control. Theatre and sporting event tickets can cost a guy over three hundred dollars. If you add dinner and drinks there goes another two hundred. It is foolish to drive with a few drinks in you so an expensive cab fare to your place or hers is a must. If you are lucky the evening will end in either her or your bedroom. When you wake up in the morning and look at what’s left in your wallet you will wonder where the hangover is coming from. This is the cost of dating an attractive woman at today’s high prices.

Most single woman are self supportive and don’t need a guy to take them out. They can go most places on their own salary. Their big problem is that they are deeply in debt and most of their salary is going for payments on their charge account. They have asked their boss for a raise and he says business is slow and he can’t afford it. She would take a second job but it is hard to find one that quickly. That is the typical story of the single woman.

Most guys would rather give their girlfriend cash in exchange for sex if the price was affordable. It would be cheaper than wining and dining them at today’s high prices. It is true that they would be turning their date into a whore but a man has to be practical if he is to get by. He is afraid to proposition her because if she refused it might breakup a good relationship, even if it is a very expensive one. But the next time he sees her he is going to take a chance and offer her a few hundred bucks for a quickie. And if she accepts he can have an inexpensive evening.

She thinks about all the money her boyfriend is wasting on her and wishes he could just take her out shopping. Handbags, shoes and clothes are more important to her than theatre or sporting events. Besides she is on a diet and does not need all that food and drinks. But she is afraid to ask him to take her to the stores instead of ballgames and restaurants, because it might get him angry. An idea pops into her head about how to make it easy for both of them. She will suggest that he cuts down on his dating expenses by just giving her two hundred dollars to spend the evening with her. If he agrees it will be a good deal for both of them.The next time they meet she asks him what the evening will cost. He says at least four hundred dollars because he plans to buy tickets for the ballgame and then take her for dinner and drinks. She says it is not right for him to waste all that money when she is deeply in debt. After giving him a few kisses she explains how it would be better for them both if he gave her two hundred dollars and they could spend a sexy evening at home. He is so pleased with the idea that he immediately reaches into his wallet and gives her the money. The rest of the evening goes well and the next morning she is off to buy herself a new handbag.

Many single couples are getting the same good idea .Cutting expenses on a date is important to a guy and receiving money on a date is a great way to earn some extra money. There is nothing wrong with a single guy exchanging money for sex with his girlfriend if it benefits them both .Some would say it turns her into a whore. That might be true but would it be better if her boyfriend spent his hard earned money on a ballgame and dinner instead of giving it to her?

The problem that is caused by a woman taking money from her boyfriend in exchange for sex is that most attractive women have more than one boyfriend. If this becomes her way of dating it could lead to her having six or seven guys that are paying her for sex. If this happens she would no longer be an innocent whore but a full blown prostitute. What is the dividing line between a whore and a full blown prostitute? The answer to the problem is complex. I believe that as long as the woman and her dates come to an agreement no names like whore or prostitute should stigmatize their relationship. But there are those lunatics that go crazy when they find out that a woman is taking money from a man in exchange for sex. I always wondered why they are so judgmental. Could it be that they themselves are secret whores in self denial? That might be the answer.

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