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The 4 Most Powerful Speed Dating Questions

May 7, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

In speed dating, there is limited time to get to learn your potential date. The time is usually five to eight minutes. If well utilized this is enough time to help you analyze all the people and come out with the lover of your dreams. Do you start asking her which of your dogs can bark more? I tend to think that this is irrelevant. Go straight to the business. Now to achieve success in speed dating, you have to be really smart. To avoid wasting any time, come up with a list of speed dating questions. They will do you miracles. Arrange them in order of priority and you won’t get disappointed. Wow! top on the list of speed dating questions should be her name. Do not be so much in a hurry and you forget to ask somebody their name. Introduction should be the very first thing in conjunction with a warm handshake and that ear to ear charming smile.

After getting the name, you should derive a cocky name from it. For example if the name is Kennedy, you can come up with Eddy. Keep on using it all the way through the supposedly love interview. It works miracles! Second on the speed dating questions list should be about the origin or place of residence. This will help you know whether there is a possibility of a long distance relationships. If so you can learn how to cope with it. It also makes you aware of the possible cultural differences. All these knowledge is important in dating. It affects the future of a relationship. After the speed dating exercise, the participants zero down to more tradition ways of maintaining the relationship. This details if assumed can bring future problems.

Another important point to consider while jotting down speed dating questions is about the occupation. What the person does for a living might help you judge their character without having to venture so much into their personal life. I am sure you associate something with a certain carrier. What do you know about policemen? There sexual prowess is talked about all the time but they can be Casanovas if they don’t restrict themselves. Journalists are known to be outgoing and fun loving. While still at this, you can throw in a question about her/his hobbies, likes and dislikes, taste in music. There is so much you can gather within that short time. Get to know her habits like, does she/he smoke or drink? Are you comfortable with this?

“Do you believe in love at first sight?” A wonderful query to include in your list of speed dating questions. The exercise is entirely based on first impression. It says a lot about you. If the person believes in it, he/she will be inquisitive about who you are as a person. The answer will give you the mood and the approach on how to treat your potential date. Speed dating questions are a proper guide to help you achieve your objectives. Once you have pinpointed the love of your life, you can work on it using all the relationship enhancing techniques. Your fast busy life will no longer hinder you from dating the best.

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Do You Scare Men Off On The First Date?

March 17, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Finding a partner is a serious goal and who you choose is very important. However if you appear to be too serious about it or intense, it is amazing how quickly you will put off possible suitors.  Although it is your goal to find a partner, it is important to be the type of partner your partner is seeking.

Even though your partner is seeking a woman to marry and create a family with, men never want to be rushed into marriage. They must fall in love first.  Unless you allow him to fall in love, he will not be at all interested in marriage or children.

For a man to fall in love with a woman he must yearn for her. Don’t mix up lust with love.  He may be attracted to you. He may have already, with subtlety, indicated that he finds you attractive.

He may even have given the impression that he would like to have sex with you, however that does not mean that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Men can be attracted to any number of women and to have a sexual encounter with him does not mean he will want to marry you.  After sex he is more than likely, even less likely to want to marry you.

Most men dream of marrying a virgin in a white wedding dress. However don’t let that worry you – just don’t be too easy.  If you want to marry him allow him to fall in love with you. Give him the opportunity to yearn. Allow him to yearn for you.

No. 1 priority is to be the person he wants to be with.  Live in the now.  Enjoy the moment, rather than planning ahead. He wants a woman who is fun, a companion, a playmate and a best friend. He does not want to be smothered or controlled.

He does not want to be mothered or fussed over; he wants to show you how manly he is. How he can organise things. How he can call you and invite you out all of his own accord. It may not be at the speed you like but if you are interested in him you will let him be and let him do his own courting at his own pace.

We have heard of women who treated the first meeting like a job interview.  We hear of couples who have just met who start off by asking each other what are they looking for in a relationship. That couple never hits it off because what they are doing to each other is too confronting.  Too scary and it also scares women off as well as men.

I have noticed at Entre Nous introduction agency that impatient women do better with a few guys on the go at the same time.  Even if you are not interested in some of the men you meet, develop friendships so that you are keeping busy and having fun whilst you are waiting for ‘the one’ to get his act together.

You cannot hurry him and if you do you are taking the risk of putting him off altogether or even worse; that you end up sliding in to the relationship without a firm commitment from him.

I have heard this story many times from men who come to Entre Nous after a divorce: “I never really fell in love with her. We got on well, the sex was great, and before I knew it we were living together. She fell pregnant and wanted to marry. I didn’t have the heart to say ‘no’.  However I never really fell in love with her.  She ended the marriage because she said we had grown apart. This time I want to fall in love with a woman and I want to do my own chasing.”

How would you like this to happen to you? How would you like to end up with a man who wasn’t in love with you – just liked the sex?  This is much worse than putting a man off because you are too pushy or talked about marriage or a permanent relationship too soon.

If you really want a man, live in the ‘now’, be enjoyable company and have fun. The heavy stuff will come but you cannot force it and get away with it. If you control the situation what you are doing is manipulating.  It doesn’t work in the long term. You may think you have achieved something but it will be at a great cost.

If you are really keen, throw away his telephone number, let him do the phoning and make sure you are going out, (not dating) with others. Keep your calendar busy so that you will not be tempted to call him.

It is most important that a man be more in love with a woman than she is with him. Especially if she is to have children with him because she is more vulnerable than he is. If he is deeply in love with you and you are 8 ½ months pregnant and have a tantrum and throw a pot of paint over him he will still love you if he is deeply in love with you.  However you must allow him to fall in love with you at his own pace.

When you meet a lovely man, be what he wants at first – a fun playmate. Men want the same things as women but in a different order. Change your order to suit him.  Have fun and enjoy the moment and the rest will follow. Once a man falls deeply in love he will move at a great pace but you have to allow him to fall in love.

Rosalind Baker is the Principal and Founder of Entre Nous Introduction Agency www.entrenous.com.au and author of 3 best sellers, Dial A Woman, Dial A Man and Dial A Personality To find out: Your Personality Type, or to find out”Are You Eligible” or “Are you ready for a relationship?” visit: www.singles.net.au

Rosalind Baker’s professional commitment to ‘match making’ is well into its second decade, although she has always possessed that innate ability to pair people off. She even introduced her ex-husband to his next wife!
Having established Entre Nous: Relationship Consultants & Educators in 1991 she has now lost count of the number of relationships the organisation has helped to establish.
While there have been many ‘fly-by-night’ introduction agencies over the past two decades in Melbourne, Entre Nous has stood the test of time. This is due, in no small part, to the professionalism and passion of Rosalind Baker.
She has written three best sellers. The first, ‘Dial A Woman’ offers advice to Australian men on how to choose the right partner and then maintain a successful relationship.
The obvious sequel, ‘Dial A Man’ advised women on how to recognise and attract the man of their dreams. While writing her third book, ‘Dial a Personality’, she realised she had discovered the successful formula for matching couples.
As a journalist Rosalind has written extensively on social affairs and women’s issues and is a well-known social commentator on courtship.
Rosalind has been the delegate representing Australian and New Zealand at the International Institute of Introduction Services.
She is a keen follower of the Arts and supports Opportunity International.
She had four children and with her new husband, Tom Baker, they now have 11 grandchildren between them.

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Judge Your Dating Compatibility

March 14, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Compatibility depends on quite a number of factors but they are often not given adequate importance. Many of you choose your dates according to your preference and never give it a thought whether the partner is matching with you or not. This is the reason why there are many relationships which break due to poor compatibility.


Now many of you will consult the astrological or tarot readings to find out whether you two are compatible or not. But there are many things that you can understand just using your common sense and eyes. The few compatibility facts that you need to consider are listed below.


Physical compatibility


There are quite a number of break-ups that occur because the partners are not physically compatible with each other. But when they started dating simply overlooked this but had to realize later. Physical and sexual compatibility has an important role to play in ones life.


If you are an obese person and never heard the name of an exercise ball then the chances are very low that you will be a compatible match with an athlete or a model. You two will not even have a common topic to talk about and the mentality will be absolutely different from each other.


Location


If you are from Africa and your date is from Australia then the chances of making a compatible match with each other is not really high. The two of you will not know much about the locations and often have different mind set. It will not be easy to meet the partner.


Moreover the outlooks of two people depend on their country and socio-economic condition of the society. So being from the same place really helps to work out a match.


Sense of humor


The sense of humor of two people should be matching perfectly. This is something that is given least priority but the partners with different idea about humor often fail to share similar emotions.


If you cracking a joke and your partner does not even get a hint to laugh then you will simply feel miserable. This should not occur with any of you and make sure that both of you understand your jokes and humor.


Background of the date


The background both individual as well as family is an important point to be considered seriously. This is not really a good idea to hide something about your past from the partner as you will definitely not expect the same from the other person.


Moreover if you two belong to completely different backgrounds then there can be some clashes in future regarding the outlook and perspectives which can prove to be fatal for the relationship.


These are few factors that you should think about to judge your dates compatibility with you.

Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating services.

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Free Online Dating Service – Its Totally Free and You Should Use One

March 13, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

In most cases the decision for singles is whether or not to use a dating service online rather than whether they should choose a free online dating service or one which is provided through a paid web site. The free online service has the advantage of less cost and less hassle to join, while the paid site may have more advertising that brings in more customers, although this is by no means guaranteed. Here are just a few of the reasons why people choose to use an online service in order to find their dating opportunities.

 

Add to their friendships

 

People sign up for membership with a free online dating service in order to increase their circle of friends. A dating site is intended to be more than a social site, but friendships are often a preliminary step before dating someone. The more people you know, the more people who are likely to share one or more of the characteristics you deem important in a potential life partner. Choosing a mate is not the primary focus for many dating site users. They simply want to connect with other people of like lifestyles and interests.

 

Just want to date

 

There are other people who become members of a free online dating service web site in order to find people to date. They may or may not want to form long term friendships. They may just want to go out with another person once or twice and then move on to the next. So long as that is understood by both parties to the activity, people who are just looking for someone to date can find the dating site to be very useful. It’s rather like using a computer program to sort the entries by priority order utilizing the standards you set. This can save a great deal of time.

 

Looking for a long term relationships

 

When a person enters a free online dating service web site for the purpose of committing to a steadfast long term relationship, they will sometimes pick the right person from a list of potential partners almost by accident. There is nothing to make light of in that prospect. A dating site allows you to get to know another people and determine if this is the person you want to commit to a long term relationship. If you choose to be cautious at each level of the relationship, it is more likely that your relationship will be a positive one.

 

Convenience

 

The person who chooses to log in to the free online dating service at 2 am in the morning while dressed in the most casual attire is just as welcome as the person who only interacts with people while dressed in a power suit and tie. In fact, you can conduct the preliminary visiting and cyber dating while at your most relaxed. Choosing the times when you want to ‘date’ is easy when the contact is made through an internet web site. Choosing the way you want to dress is also a convenience offered by online dating. 

 

Online Dating Service or Free Online Dating Service constitutes the best resource on the internet for a free dating service. Choose this web site for a multitude of informative and interesting bits of knowledge and you can also join one free today.

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Free Online Dating Service – Its Totally Free And You Should Use One

March 13, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

A free online dating service is an obvious choice for singles. Here are a few of the reasons why it is a great idea for you.

In most cases the decision for singles is whether or not to use a dating service online rather than whether they should choose a free online dating service or one which is provided through a paid web site. The free online service has the advantage of less cost and less hassle to join, while the paid site may have more advertising that brings in more customers, although this is by no means guaranteed. Here are just a few of the reasons why people choose to use an online service in order to find their dating opportunities.

Add to their friendships

People sign up for membership with a free online dating service in order to increase their circle of friends. A dating site is intended to be more than a social site, but friendships are often a preliminary step before dating someone. The more people you know, the more people who are likely to share one or more of the characteristics you deem important in a potential life partner. Choosing a mate is not the primary focus for many dating site users. They simply want to connect with other people of like lifestyles and interests.

Just want to date

There are other people who become members of a free online dating service web site in order to find people to date. They may or may not want to form long term friendships. They may just want to go out with another person once or twice and then move on to the next. So long as that is understood by both parties to the activity, people who are just looking for someone to date can find the dating site to be very useful. It’s rather like using a computer program to sort the entries by priority order utilizing the standards you set. This can save a great deal of time.

Looking for a long term relationships

When a person enters a free online dating service web site for the purpose of committing to a steadfast long term relationship, they will sometimes pick the right person from a list of potential partners almost by accident. There is nothing to make light of in that prospect. A dating site allows you to get to know another people and determine if this is the person you want to commit to a long term relationship. If you choose to be cautious at each level of the relationship, it is more likely that your relationship will be a positive one.

Convenience

The person who chooses to log in to the free online dating service at 2 am in the morning while dressed in the most casual attire is just as welcome as the person who only interacts with people while dressed in a power suit and tie. In fact, you can conduct the preliminary visiting and cyber dating while at your most relaxed. Choosing the times when you want to ‘date’ is easy when the contact is made through an internet web site. Choosing the way you want to dress is also a convenience offered by online dating.

Free Online Dating Service or Online Dating Service constitutes the best resource on the internet for a free dating service. Choose this web site for a multitude of informative and interesting bits of knowledge and you can also join one free today.

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