Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for â??brick and mortarâ? flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you â??slimyâ? If you donâ??t go far enough, she will label you â??wimpyâ?. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?
Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the â??feel goodâ? factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
Compliment herâ?¦and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say â??thank youâ?. Do Not be self depreciating.
Listen�listen�.listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
Donâ??t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isnâ??t responding to you. If she isnâ??t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Donâ??t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
Article by Suki Tan, founder of the Love Dating Online Review Sites www.1LoveDating.com and unique Love Dating Blog with Love Dating online news & update. Also, don’t forget to download your FREE eBook : 36-pages “101 Romantic Ideas”.
Dating Test – Do You Have Positive Outlook?
Whether we succeed or fail in dating, positive outlook always helps. Let us look at this in detail and find out if you have positive outlook in dating? Does it help if we always think of negative results? Does that improve our probability of success? I agree that you may not be a real choice date, but does that thought help? And let me ask you – who is a choice date? Can you find out one person who does not have faults? Or who is perfect? No, all of us something imperfect and that is why we are all human beings.
Many people carry inferiority complex from their childhood. It is not surprising to find children making fun of a child whose nose might be too big or small or something else. Sometimes, our parents give us these complexes by telling us how we are not good at something, repeatedly. We grow up with such complexes and that damages our self-respect.
We carry forward such ideas in any activity we take up when we grow. If we were called sloppy in our childhood, we are conscious of that while we are employed and worried that our boss should not notice our sloppiness. The facts may be contrary. We may not be sloppy at all, but the childhood memory remains with us.
Are you carrying any such ideas in dating? Please drop them. Keep a positive outlook. Fell good about yourself. You are good, whatever others may say and you deserve somebody equally good. Go forward in a positive frame of mind and project confidence. As I said before all of us have something wrong with us and you are no different. Better would be focus on your positive qualities and change your outlook to positive.
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