Listening skills are an essential part of healthy communication and are necessary components for building lasting relationships. Truly feeling heard is a powerful experience. It makes you feel cared for, validated, and important. We are faced with so many distractions in our lives that when someone sits down and really listens, it can make you feel really connected. And if you … [Read more...] about Listening Your Way to a Healthy Relationship
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When it comes to the type of men you're attracting - you can see the progression of how you’re doing on the inside by the men who are showing up in your life. Suppose you’re used to attracting men who hurt you – if men keep showing up who want to hurt you, you know you’re not healed yet. But as the more “boring” guys start to show up, you’re getting healed! They may not … [Read more...] about Single Still? Do You Feel You Can’t Seem to Find the Right Man and Right Relationship? This Might Be Why.
Here’s a question from Jessica, who’s experiencing something we can all relate to. The Question: “Hi Helena, It seems like all the men I date always end up disappointing me in some way. It starts off great, and then after a couple weeks they either say the wrong thing, forget to call, or they seem to get busy and stop making plans with me and everything just fizzles … [Read more...] about Dating Advice: Who You Are Attracting and How You Can Improve on it
“He just met her... She's supposed to be his transitional person; she's not supposed to be the ONE. All this time I thought he didn't want to get married. But, the truth is, he didn't want to marry me.” Meg Ryan’s line from When Harry Met Sally speaks for many women. Or maybe your ONE did know he wanted to get married, but started picking you apart and finding fault just … [Read more...] about What Do You Do When the ONE You Wanted Marries Someone Else?
Question: Why am I single, as I watch all my friends getting married and having children. I know I deserve love but can’t seem to find it. I online date, I go out to social functions walk up to men and give them my number, I ask friends to set me up, but nothing works out. Men who I am attracted too don’t return my calls, phone texts or emails. A friend pointed out I try to go … [Read more...] about Why am I Single as My Friends are Getting Married? What am I Doing Wrong?