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Jon & Jayne’s Guide to Making Friends and “Getting” the Guy

May 27, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

  • ISBN13: 9780757306594
  • Condition: NEW
  • Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.

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What’s it all about, Jon & Jayne? It’s about ALL of us—what we like, what we do, what we need, and how we cope. It’s about getting by in this world the best way we can. It’s about giving advice and accepting advice, making mistakes and avoiding them, learning lessons, having fun, and being serious. It’s about laughing, crying, sharing, socializing, venting, and all the other ‘ing’ things. Most of all, it’s about being ourselves.

In this first issue in The Jon & Jayne Doe Series, Jon & Jayne’s Guide to Making Friends and ‘Getting’ the Guy (or Girl), we welcome you to our ’7F world’ and invite you to share in our stories, advice, drama, Internet-active features, and more. We hope you learn a thing or two about being yourself and making a good impression on others. And if not, we just hope you have fun. Visit us at jonandjayne.com and share a thing or two about what’s important to you. See you inside!

–Jon & Jayne

Jon & Jayne Doe (no relation, just good friends) represent the average guy and girl. Like you, they’ve got unique talents and abilities—and those things make them . . . and you . . . xtraordinary.

Jon & Jayne Doe are fictional characters.

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Meet Singles In Chat Rooms – See What You’re Getting Yourself Into Before A Real Date!

May 5, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

There are many advantages to meeting singles in chat rooms. When you use chat rooms to meet singles you can narrow it down to a particular type of person you are looking for. There are thousands of chat rooms and you will surely find one that fits what you are looking for. There are chat rooms for singles over the age of fifty. There are chat rooms for different ethnicity’s for instance if you are looking to meet Hispanics or African Americans then you would go to one of these rooms.

There are also chat rooms where single mothers and fathers can meet other single parents. No matter what you are looking for there is a chat room out there for you. When you meet in a chat room you can usually find out right away whether you will even be compatible with someone. In chat rooms the first things most people will tell you are there age, gender, race, and where they are from. When meeting in person you kind of have to work up to these things.

In chat rooms the conversations usually start with your age, race, gender, and location. This works out well because if someone is not in your age range or they live too far away then you know right from the beginning and can just politely excuse yourself from the conversation. It is much quicker meeting singles in chat rooms than in person.

When you go to a singles chat room then you know everyone there is looking for the same thing you are. When you go to a bar or club to meet singles you have to find the singles in the crowd of married, engaged, and dating people. There are of course some things you should do to be safe when looking for singles online because not every is truthful. This is unfortunate because it causes problems for everyone.

We all have to be extra careful because of the bad seeds out there. Some people just have no idea where to even go to meet single people. This is not a problem when you use chat rooms. You just find a singles chat room that has what your looking for. Many older people who are widowed or divorced and have not dated in a long time find it difficult to get out there and meet people.

A chat room for single widows or divorcees can make this much easier for them to meet other single people. When you do find someone in a chat room that you connect with you should be careful how you proceed. Unfortunately in our world we have people out there that will hurt us or take advantage of us.

To locate your ideal chat room service, visit one of the popular dating sites . Dating sites usually include chat rooms as part of your membership. When you meet someone online that you think you might like try talking to them on line for a few days or even week first. Make sure you feel comfortable with them. The next step would be talking on the phone but you want to be careful of who you give your number to. Do not just give your phone number to every person you run across in a chat room.

When you get ready to meet in person pick a crowded place such as a restaurant or bar. Never have them meet you at your house. As long as you are careful you will have a great time meeting singles in chat rooms. You may even find the love of your life waiting in a chat room for you.

Matt Fuller is a webmaster for some of the most popular online dating chat rooms in America. Matt also provides free dating services in Australia.

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Divorced and getting back in the dating game?How and when to play

March 29, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Going through a divorce is not a life experience you wanted, but it happens. Now, after licking your wounds, you’re ready to get out there. For many, it’s not that easy. It could have been years, even decades since you last actively sought a date. So, where do you start?

Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating–one of the world’s largest brick-and-mortar dating services with more than 60 offices nationwide—has paired hundreds of newly divorced clients during his quarter of a century in business. He’s also been divorced himself and happily remarried now for years.

“When you’re newly divorced, it seems everybody either has a friend they want to set you up with or words of advice or a little pep talk to get you back out there. The truth is, only you can know when you’re ready to start dating. That’s why it’s really important to take some time, think and get a sense of where you are emotionally first before you start dating—particularly if it’s been a very long time since you’ve dated,” said Falzone.

For starters, Falzone recommends:

*Going slow – perhaps it’s a cliché, but a divorce is a life-altering event and you do need some time to heal.
*Avoid the bar scene – Getting out with friends and co-workers as a way to re-enter the social scene but don’t do it as a way to meet potential dates.
*Get fit – Being ready to date again means feeling good about yourself. Starting an exercise program or going to a gym can begin that process of feeling good about you again.
*Be wary of dating at work – it’s natural for you to be close to people you work with, particularly if they’ve helped you through a tough time. Just be careful before entering into a relationship or even dating somebody at the office.
*Networking – While being set up might not be your idea of getting back into the dating game, if you’re looking it couldn’t hurt to let people in your social or professional network know that you are interested in meeting new people.
*The ex – It’s safe to say that dwelling on the ex will not do much good in dating new people. Just remember that you’re dating again for you, not to get back at him/her or to find somebody before he or she does.
*Take your time before introducing your dates to friends and, especially family – if you think your divorce is an adjustment for you, it’s also one for family, friends and your children. Wait before introducing your date to them, especially the children.
*No overnight guests – If you have children, wait a significant amount of time before having any overnight guests—at least until your date is something more serious and has had a chance to form some kind of a relationship with your kids.

“Getting back into the dating game doesn’t have to be scary. It can actually be an exciting time of your new life but you want to do it for the right reasons and be able to enjoy it,” said Falzone. “Take it slow, be open and upbeat, and you can find love again.”

“It’s great to be excited about somebody after a first date. What’s even better is to be even more excited after two. If’ your goal is for something lasting, there’s nothing wrong with taking it slow and making sure it really is, pun intended, the right one for you,” said Falzone.

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Getting Divorced? Enlist The Help Of Divorce Attorneys

March 22, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Lawyers that specifically specialize in family law and divorce are called divorce attorneys. Unfortunately, with divorces being such a common occurrence these days, they are increasingly in demand. In fact, it is worth noting that at least 50% of all marriages end in divorce – a sad, but true, statistic.

When are divorce attorneys needed? Well, unsurprisingly, when you are getting divorce. However, they can also be consulted prior to official divorce proceedings being started. You and your spouse (soon to be ex-spouse) will both need one, and there must not be any conflict of interest between the two lawyers. Most of the separation of property and custody issues can be worked out through the lawyers to prevent you and the other party from having to communicate more than necessary.

You might think that you can save yourself some money by not using a divorce lawyer by simply coming to an amicable agreement with your ex. However, this is not recommended because divorce proceeding are complex and, even if things start off on a friendly basis, good will can quickly be worn down.

It is important that all terms of the agreement are both valid and legally binding and only a lawyer can ensure that this is the case. Remember that divorce agreements are a two way thing; obviously you will want your ex to stick to what they have agreed to, but you will also be bound by what you have agreed to. Once you sign an agreement, it will be legally binding on you. Simply saying at a later date that you misunderstood a term, or was mislead on it, is not a valid defense for not adhering to it.

Also, it is important to remember that divorce laws vary by state, and it is essential to understand the laws in your state before getting too far into proceedings. Some states require a formal separation for a certain length of time prior to granting a divorce, while others require an informal separation before granting divorce. There are also residency requirements to consider as well. A lawyer will be able to help you sort through all the legalities.

How can you find divorce attorneys? Finding divorce attorneys is probably easier than finding other kinds of attorneys for the simple fact that they are so commonly needed. Someone you know has probably been through a divorce themselves and will as such be able to give you some recommendations or referrals. If they were not completely satisfied with their experience, or if you do not think you should use that lawyer, consider using online directories or your local telephone directory to help find a divorce attorney that can help you.

Are you in need of divorce attorneys? If so, head on over to www.miamilawyersandattorneys.com.

By Mark Walters.

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Online Dating: Tips for Getting Started

March 21, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

If you are new to the world of online dating, this new way of meeting people can get a bit confusing. Dating in the online world is different than real life dating in a number of ways. While it’s an exciting way to meet lots of people beyond the coworkers and friends you see each day, it brings a few new hazards to be aware of, as well.


The online world features online dating services that appeal to different types of people, including people of different ages, interests, as well as different sexual orientation, demographics, and careers.


Many people have found this to be an especially fun and exciting way to meet new people. Some surveys indicate that as many as 1 in 5 Americans currently participate in or have participated in an online dating service of some kind.


And surveys indicate that the number of people participating in the online dating world is increasing. Young people are using such services as a primary route to meet others with whom they share interests, whether to find new friends or to find real romance. Older people are turning to dating services as a way to get serious about finding someone with whom they are particularly compatible.


One of the best features of online dating is that (provided you work with a reputable, established online service), you remain anonymous until the point that you wish to share personal information with someone. You do not need to meet anyone with whom you communicate until you have developed a sense of trust and a level of comfort. You always have the choice whether to meet or give personally identifying contact information.


You will want to choose an online dating service that is reliable. The more reliable sites require membership from all participants and have a very specific set of requirements that must be followed. Most of these services come with a fee, though most of them also offer a free trial period so you can get a sense of whether you’ll want to continue on as a paying member.


When you begin with one of these services, you will be asked to create a profile with a picture, as well as other information such as your hobbies and interests as well as the types of things you are looking for in prospective partners. You have a chance to express yourself in just the way you wish.


After you have created your profile, you are matched with other subscribers, based on the information you have provided. Then it is up to the subscribers to look over their matches and to decide with matches they would like to communicate with.


With an online dating service, you get to choose the people who you are going to communicate with. And you get to read their profiles before the connection is made, too, so you have a bit of background of the person.


Of course, the downside to this type of dating is that not everyone is being honest in the profile. It is extremely important to exercise caution and make sure that you establish trust before revealing any personally identifiable information about yourself. The more established and reputable online dating services have special tips for members to help you maintain your personal safety. Many services enforce strict rules to help alleviate this problem, and some even conduct background checks on prospective members.


To get started, it’s a good idea to try out the top three or four dating services with a free trial and then decide which site you may want to continue on with as a member.

Jamie Jefferson has compiled coupons for free trial dating service including eHarmony Coupons and Free Trial Yahoo Personals too.

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