As I have said before, the popular ideas about dating are all screwed up. A first date isn’t about impressing a girl with expensive dinners and asking boring interview questions! It is possible to be more interesting and spend less money while building more attraction with a woman.
The first thing you need to do is get rid of the boring job interview questions! Don’t ask her about school, work, or were she grew up like every other chump she’s ever dated. A couple fun things to talk about instead: background and history about an interesting part of town or common interest, Anything superficial to do with pop culture, music, movies, fashion, celebrities etc., A really fun conversation topic is fake psychological analysis about her or society in general. “you seem kinda quite and nice but it’s the quite ones you have to watch out for, under the surface your probably…”
Now that you have some fun ideas about conversation you need to go and do something different from your typical date too! Try going to an interesting part of town like cool historical places, markets, shopping areas with a cool mix of shops to check out and talk about. This is an activity not a date. The great thing is you don’t have to buy anything, your just walking talking and having a good time. If you want to stop and talk over a cup of coffee, why not, its cool quite and cheap! Don’t be a chump and drop a bunch of money on a fancy dinner for a girl your just getting to know!
If you are going to spend a little money on a first date at least make it something different and fun. Instead of a dinner at a restaurant, prepare a picnic and go to a park or beach. You can also do something active together like take a bike ride or dance lessons. Check your local paper and see if there are any local festivals to go to! When you really get to thinking about it, the possibilities are endless. No matter what you decide to do, make sure of a few things first.
Planning for multi-venues is a great way to make her feel like she has gotten to know you better in a shorter amount of time. Just be sure in plan the logistics ahead of time so nothing unexpected screws up your date. Also take care of reservations or tickets if the date calls for it. You should also plan your dates when you will feel at your best. Avoid scheduling a date after a stressful meeting with your boss, it will show and your date will not enjoy it!
Ok, lets recap: Talk about fun light hearted stuff and NOT the typical job interview questions, Second: go do something interesting instead of the typical dinner date! You will have more fun and build more attraction! Not to mention save a lot of money.