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Celebrating A Romantic Valentine?s Day – 5 Unique Ideas!

March 30, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Looked upon by many romantic idealists as the most special day in their life, Valentine’s Day offers the world of bliss and beauty to those who can be creative, inventive and innovative about making this date a memorable one for the right reasons – of their partner – so that the next level of their relationship can be established at this point.

If you play your cards right, there’s no saying where a well-planned, thoughtfully organized and happily executed V-Day plan may take you and your loved one in terms of bonding and re-living the wonderful moments you spend together on this special day for lovers.

That is just what we are here to guide you about; take a look at our practical tips for making V-Day a successful one with your special someone!

1. If you can plan a special date to commemorate your beloved and his or her meaning in your life, there’s no better day to do that but Valentine’s. Considered at par with the importance given to personal anniversaries and life-altering events, V-Day celebrations need to be enjoyable, unique and exciting to be truly remembered for their remarkable quality. So, you need to keep the tastes of your partner in mind when planning your Valentine’s Day celebration; surprise him or her, if you will – but keep them involved as much as possible, so it doesn’t backfire on you.
2. Try and spend as much of Valentine’s Day together as possible so you get a better opportunity to know each other and savor the company of someone you love on a special occasion dedicated just to lovers! Do things you both love, plan activities you both enjoy and don’t waste time in only planning – but actually take the time and effort out to get in the thick of things and have fun!
3. If you are planning to go for a special meal or shared activity at a fun-mall, resort or private space for the day, remember there will many others in the queue, so don’t forget to make reservations if that’s required – and do so much in advance to avoid disappointment! You can opt for a week-end getaway on V-Day with that special someone – away from the madding crowds and the dull routine of everyday life that you exchange for a memorable, idealistic romantic setting by the beach or the hills even!
4. If you are sure your date loves sports or music, you can pick up tickets to a special game in town (or even the neighboring one) like NBA finals or a concert in New York; for the outdoorsy kinds, you can plan a camp-out in the welcoming and solitary mountains of Colorado. There’s actually no dearth of fun ideas for Valentines, if you only put a little thought into it!
5. For those that love traditional and are romantics at heart, there is the ever-ready option of red roses, (long-stemmed ones), sterling silver jewelry and mementoes for V-Day, crystal, hobby-related tool-kits, planting flower bulbs for the coming season so you can view your love growing as it will, literally, bloom.

Candlelight meals, piped music and just you two in secluded bliss – there’s so much you can do to make his/her dreams come true on V-Day, with just a spin to old dating ideas.

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Top Five Reasons You Need a Save the Date Card

March 15, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment


One of the most forgotten elements of any wedding is the save the date card. In fact, some couples choose not to send them at all. If you want to give your guests a save the date card, you can send them with your invitations or you can choose to send them separately after your guests have replied. It is always a good idea to send your guests a save the date card. Here are the top five reasons why save the date cards make sense.

#1 – Some guests really could forget your wedding if you do not remind them.

It is not meant to offend you, and it does not mean that you friends and family members do not care about you. Sometimes, life just gets in the way and people need to be reminded of your wedding. With a save the date card, your guests, even those that are very forgetful can attach the card to their date book or hang the card on the refrigerator. You invited your guests with the hopes that they can attend your celebration. Although you have spent the past several weeks or months thinking about your wedding, they have had to deal with other events in life. If you want them to come, send them a reminder.

#2 – You can avoid fielding phone calls about date, location, and time.

While your friends and family members may not forget about your wedding, they may not remember the exact time or location, or they may be confused about the day. During the few weeks before your wedding, you have hundreds of little details to worry about. Do you really want phone calls from everyone you know asking for the details, forcing you to give out your information over and over and over again? Instead, a save the date card can provide your guests with the necessary information, and this can save you time and aggravation.

#3 – When people are planning their own events, they can refer to your save the date card.

The date of your wedding should be the most important day in your life, but this is not always the top priority for your guests. Sometimes, your guests might be planning weddings of their own! By giving out save the date cards, you can make sure that there is no confusion about your big day. This is a gentle way to remind people not to plan their events on the same day as yours. Without a save the date card, they might forget and make plans they cannot change.

#4 – People can carry a save the date card with them.

Wedding invitations are often bulky, and it is unrealistic to expect someone to carry around your invitation. However, if someone is on the go and often making plans, it is important to have a way to quickly check a date. When you send a save the date card, they can take that with them to plan their coming weeks appropriately. Match your save the date card to the style of your wedding (formal, rustic, casual, etc), and you will also be reminding your guests about what they should wear to your wedding. Your guests can carry the card with them when they go shopping as a small reminder. This is important because plans may come up out of nowhere and it can help them plan accordingly if they have the date of your wedding with them. Another benefit of carrying around your wedding date is that they can be prepared if somebody asks them about the wedding celebration.

#5 – A save the date card says that you care.

Above all else, save the date cards provide a polite way to inform your guests about the date of the wedding. By sending your guest a save the date card, you show them that you care and really want them at your wedding. Save the date cards are traditional, polite, and thoughtful.

Not every wedding needs a save the date card. Sometimes, if your wedding is very low budget or planned extremely quickly, you do not need a save the date card. You may not need a save the date card if you have a very small close-knit guest list or are planning a reception after a civil ceremony. In most cases, however, a save the date card can really help your guests remember your wedding. Although your life has been revolving around the date for a long time, others need a reminder. If you want your friends at your wedding, send them save the date cards!

When you are planning your wedding take these five reasons for using a save the date card into consideration. There are many benefits to this type of stationery and you can simply send them with your wedding invitation or mail them closer to the ceremony as a reminder.

Lisa Parker is a freelance writer who writes about family events such as weddings, often focusing on specific aspects of a wedding such as the wedding invitations.

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Save the Date Cards for Your Bar Mitzvah – Do You Really Need Them?

March 10, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Bat mitzvah and bar mitzvah save the date cards are a relatively new concept. They have increasingly grown in popularity over recent years.  But isn’t an invitation enough?  Do you really need to send out bar mitzvah save the date cards, too?

No, save the date cards are not an absolutely necessary prelude to your child’s bar mitzvah.  But there are some circumstances where it might be a good idea to consider.  Here’s some questions to help you decide.

1. Does your guest list include friends and loved ones from out of town?  If people have to travel to get to your child’s bar mitzvah, then sending save the date cards can give them extra time to make those travel arrangements.  The more advance notice they have, the better chance they have to track down airline and hotel discounts. They may also need to schedule vacation time so they can attend.

2. Does your child have friends who may also be planning a bat mitzvah or bar mitzvah around the same time?  Since his or her friends will all be around the same age, the odds are good there could be some overlapping.  Of course, your child will want his friends to share his celebration, so sending out save the dates can alert the parents before they make their own plans.

3. Does the date of your child’s bar mitzvah coincide with any holidays or school vacations?  Take in account weekends around Thanksgiving and Columbus day or any holiday where people might make plans because they have extra time off from work or school.  Also, keep in mind that schools have different schedules for winter break and spring break. If you let your guests know your special date before they make other plans, it’s more likely that they will choose to attend your child’s bar mitzvah.

But even if you are only having a small party to celebrate this rite of passage in your child’s life, with local people attending, you might still want to send bar mitzvah save the date cards anyway. Why, because they’re fun!  It’s your first chance to announce this event in a big way and get your guests excited about sharing this special day.

If you decide to go this route, you can do it very inexpensively.  One easy idea is to buy a posterboard and print on it in big bold letters – Save the Date for My Bar Mitzvah – followed by the date.  Take a photo of your child holding the sign, get reprints, and send them out.

Is your child creative, or are you?  If so, you can paint, draw, scrapbook just one save the date card.  Then photograph, scan it, or take it to the copy center.  You can print it at home, make color copies at the office supply store or have a local printer run off your creation.  These will really get noticed by your potential guests because they are so original.

Another alternative is photo bar mitzvah save the date cards.  These really stand out and often cost less than save the date cards you would pick out of an invitation book in a store.  Check online for the best deals.  You can even find photo bar mitzvah save the date cards that use multiple photos of your child, so everyone who receives it can see how he or she has grown. Some online companies can tie your child’s theme into the photo cards, so shop around to see what’s available. 

You could also go with photo magnets for save the dates.  The magnets might cost a little more, but if you want to send something your guests will immediately stick on their refrigerators, then this is a good option.  They are not likely to forget a date that they see on their fridge every day. These come in different sizes to fit every budget.

Bar mitzvah save the date cards are not mandatory.  But if you decide to give your guests this extra advance notice, they are sure to appreciate the consideration.  Whether you craft your own cards, order photo bar mitzvah save the date cards or go with magnets, you don’t need to spend a lot of money.  Just get the word out, so that friends and loved ones will mark their calendars and reserve the day for your child’s bar mitzvah.

Linda Kling is the owner of Photo Party Favors, which offers personalized photo favors and custom invitations. Visit her website for more information on photo bar mitzvah save the date cards, featuring your multiple photos, as well as free printable candy bar wrappers, party recipes, more.

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How to Get Through a Divorce Or Breakup

March 8, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

After a break up, you might decide not to get into a serious relationship again because you are afraid of getting hurt once more. You may even fear that you might not find another person because your self-esteem was shattered. Feelings of not being good enough for anyone might lurk in your mind. This is quite normal to experience.

First, you must stop thinking and talking about him or her. Easier said than done right? No matter how difficult it seems, you must stop contacting or spying on your ex. If you continue this behavior, you will never forget about him or her.

Return their things or dispose them. It is a way of assuring yourself that you have really accepted that the relationship is over. Keep the gifts, photographs and cards that you have received out of your sight. Even consider changing your telephone number. This will keep you from waiting by the phone for him or her to call.

What is the worst thing that can happen from the break up? You definitely have learned something from the relationship, about yourself and your partner. It’s up to you to answer that.

But what is more important is to get on with your life. It is not the end of the world. You still have your family, friends, and career ahead of you.

You can make new friends that may develop into better relationships. You can do things that you wanted done but held on because he did not like it.

Sitting alone in your house or apartment sulking away is a waste of time and energy. Figuring a way to get even may satisfy you to a certain extent but it does not benefit you in any other way.

Remember that they are getting on with their life and you are wasting yours away. The best thing you can do is to work on yourself, on your personal goals.

Start a journal. Writing down your feelings, thoughts and emotions is therapeutic. You are able to keep track of how you are managing your life after your loved one is gone.

Keeping a journal will allow you to see the growth you make after the break up. Write down your daily activities and your observations including the people you meet and the things you do either at work or at home.

You will realize that there are actually many things that are going on around you. It will also help you see a new relationship building up.

When you are ready to move on, try online dating. It is safer than going out to the bar. Additionally there are many free sites on the internet that offer the same features as the paid sites. There has been a lot of positive feedback with TheBadge.org. They offer free background investigations for all of their members as well as Chat Rooms, Public Forums, Instant Messaging, and more.

If all else fails, consult a relationship expert. You know you need one when you have developed the suicidal tendencies.

If you are reading this article, you have probably just gone through a separation, divorce, or break up. No matter how many times you have gone through this in your lifetime, it still hurts. It is more painful for those who experience it for the first time in their life.

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Proper Etiquette for Sending out Save the Date Cards

March 6, 2010 By LoveEngineer.com Leave a Comment

Sending save the date cards is one of the newest phenomena in the world of wedding planning, which may account for some of the questions couples may have. The practice of sending these cards can be quite confusing with couples asking who they should send them to, what information should be included, and when to send them. These are just a few concerns that people have with save the date cards.

Primarily, save the date cards are the first step in informing your wedding guests of the big event. Their main purpose is to allow guests to mark your wedding date on their calendar and to clear their schedules. While save the date cards are not a requirement, they are often appreciated greatly.

Do not let all the questions you have impede the plans you have for your wedding. Simply read these tips on proper save the date card etiquette and you are sure to have success in planning your wedding. You do not have to be a wedding planner to properly send save the date cards to your guests.

Are Save the Date Cards Always a Good Idea?

It is not always required to send out save the date cards for your wedding, but there are a few cases in which doing so is ideal. If many of your guests may be traveling to attend your wedding, save the date cards are an excellent idea. If your wedding takes place on or around a holiday, it is also a good idea to use them. Other situations in which sending save the date cards is recommended include if your wedding is taking place in another country or if your wedding going to occur in a major city.

Who to Send Save the Date Cards To

Plainly put, send save the date cards only to guests you plan to invite to the wedding. You should not send save the dates to anyone who that is not being invited to the wedding. This is important because your guests need to mark their calendar with the date of the wedding so they do not make any plans on that day.

When to Send Save the Date Cards

In most cases, save the date cards should be sent four to six months before your wedding. If you are planning a destination wedding, however, plan to send them out even before that, a year in advance, if you can. Giving your guests as much notice as possible can help them plan any necessary travel arrangements or vacation time off from work for your big day.

What Information to Include

Save the date cards are not wedding invitations, so you do not need to include everything you normally would within the invites themselves. The information that you need to include is limited to your names, the date of the wedding, and the city, town and state in which the wedding is going to take place. You do not have to include the venue at this time, save that information for the wedding invitation. If you have a wedding website, be sure to include it now.

It is also important to remember that save the date cards are a new idea and many guests may have not received them in the past. Because of this, it is a good idea to include something on the card that lets guests understand that this is not the invitation. An option would be, “invitation to follow” neatly printed at the bottom center of the card.

Formal or Informal

There is no strict guideline as to how formal or informal your wedding save the date cards should be. A good rule of thumb is to stick to the theme and style of your wedding. If your wedding is going to be formal, go ahead and design your save the date cards accordingly. If you are having a casual wedding, you can use fun save the date cards are just as good since it is an informal wedding. Just remember, as long as you like the style of the cards, nothing is wrong.

Save the Date Design Options

The design options for the save the date cards really have no limit. By the time save the date cards are ready to go out, many couples have already decided on the basic design and layout of their invitations. So, if you already have a theme or style in mind, go with that for continuity purposes. Many couples like to tie everything together with one theme, color scheme, and style throughout the entire planning process.

Save the date cards do not need to be “postcards” as many people assume. Couples can get very creative in letting their guests know when and where the wedding is going to be. Popular formats for save the date cards include magnets, posters, emails, calendars, and even coffee mugs.

Jennifer Bailey is a freelance writer who writes about family, correspondence and family events such as weddings, often focusing on one specific aspect of a wedding, such as save the date cards.

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