“I’ve already got a female to worry about.
Her name is the Enterprise.” Captain Kirk, Star Trek

Star Trek James T. Kirk, Starship Captain, Starfleet Admiral, Mack Daddy

Wanna get lucky tonight?  The fact that you’re reading this article tells me the answer is “yes.”  Well, read along and learn how that sci-fi classic Star Trek, and specifically the great teacher himself, James Tiberius Kirk, has taught man all he needs to know about hooking up.

Just so we’re clear, I’m talking about real Star Trek, i.e. the 1966-69 series broadcast on NBC, and not that simpering, flatulent imposter known as Star Trek: The Next Generation.  What’s the difference, you ask?  Shut up.  Okay, fine, you want a difference?  Real Trek has clear-cut post-World War II era values (we’re here to spread peace – OUR kind of peace) liberally intermingled with philosophy, satire, and pop psychology.  Plus, the Klingons are stone-cold badasses.  TNG has pandering moral lessons, thuddingly obvious metaphors, and that neutered house pet Worf.  Seriously, what’s Klingon for “Uncle Tom?”  More pertinent to our discussion, real Trek has bouffanted yeomen in bullet bras, and drool-worthy guest hotties like Yvonne Craig and Sherry Jackson in all manner of skimpy outfits. TNG has Whoopi Goldberg dressed as a Franciscan nun.  What about star trek Voyager? I will not dignify that question with an answer.

I wish to further state I have not watched Star Trek since it was broadcast late at night on local New York television back when I was going to NYU in the ‘80s.  And I was usually baked at least half the time.  So if I misremember the occasional detail or quote, I don’t want to be the recipient of a 2,000 word indignant e-mail from any kind of Trekkie or Trekker or any other emotionally-stunted member of the Trek Taliban.  I am not going to recount individual episodes chapter and verse because, plastic-eared arguments to the contrary, that is not a skill to be proud of.

“Brace yourself. The area of penetration will no doubt be sensitive.”

I grew up in the 70s, which meant I was raised on the television of the 60s because those shows were in syndication all day and night.  And so I learned from an early age to pattern myself on the swinging decade’s televised alpha males; Joe Mannix, Napoleon Solo, James West, Thurston Howell**, all the top studs.

And make no mistake, every hour-long drama with a male lead was about one thing:  watching that guy get laid.  Wrongly convicted doctor Richard Kimball (The Fugitive) popped up in a new town every week, ostensibly on the run from the law while searching for the his wife’s real killer.  Yet he always seemed to have plenty of time to bang Suzanne Pleshette or whoever was that episode’s guest babe.  Cat burglar Al Mundy (It Takes a Thief), slick as a greased eel, was sprung from prison to steal for the government which he most enthusiastically did…right after he porked every woman above the age of consent on three continents.  Oh, you never saw the porkage, but the show made it damn clear what would be happening after the end credits.  Robert Wagner would take the girl’s arm, crack a smarmy double-entendre, and wink at the camera.  He may as well have dangled a Trojan Magnum and a handful of roofies.

(BTW, as I rough draft this article at a diner off I-5, there’s a gay Cuban couple in the booth next to me.  They’re alternately arguing in rapid-fire Spanish and taking pictures of everything on their table.  Way to set the ambiance, guys.)

“My people pride themselves on being the greatest, most successful gamblers in the universe. We compete for everything -- power, fame, women -- everything we desire, and it is our nature ... to win.” Star Trek

This brings us to James T. Kirk.  Our sensei.  We are but masterless ronin wandering the bars and dating sites and co-workers’ wedding receptions, looking for the right woman who will do all the wrong things.  Kirk is our master, he who unites us through his wise teachings.  Because in that great televised bachelor pad, Kirk was different.  He got laid in the future. Yet his maxims reverberate to the present because they are applicable to any era, be it 1968, stardate 3045.1, or TONIGHT.

Here then are Star Treks, Captain Kirk’s 10 Ways to get a girl:

1) Dress Well. You ever see Kirk in baggy shorts and geeky tech engineering tradeshow cap?  ‘Course not.  He’s always rockin’ that Federation uniform, shirt tucked in and shoes polished.  Next time you go out, set yourself apart from the horndog rabble by selecting a black sport jacket and slacks.  A black suit is even better.  Why black?  So you can spill stuff on it, dummy, and still look like you posess an aura of cool mystery.  Plus you’ve probably heard black is slimming and it is.  That’s why so many hot chicks wear it.  But don’t be the dork who wears all black.  Unless the name on your birth certificate is Johnny Cash, you’ll look like a pretentious tool.  Make sure you bring out contrast (and get yourself noticed) with a light colored shirt and bright tie.

2)  Bring a Wingman. Two are even better.  It shorthands you have social skills.  Why else do you think Kirk brought Spock and Doctor McCoy with him everywhere?  Savvy as always, Kirk also made sure his wingmen would be no competition in the looks department.  Truth be told, Kirk is a rather unremarkable looking guy, already getting a gut in his mid-30’s.  But then get a look at the heavybrowed train wreck that is Spock, or the crumpled wrapping paper visage of Bones, who looked old enough to be his own grandpa, and you see why Kirk got his pick of the green-skinned litter.

3) Drive a Decent Vehicle. Kirk rolls in the USS Enterprise, sleekest ship in the galaxy.  And make no mistake, the alien poon goddesses love it, especially when they get a look at the captain’s massive…chair.  Don’t let your potential quest see you take the bus, ‘cause it will be game over.  Women want to see the car.  Why?  Because it shorthands both your taste and earning potential.  Full disclosure:  I’m currently unemployed.  All I had to eat today was a peanut butter sandwich.  Yet I’ll give up food altogether before surrendering my Infiniti because that car makes women think I’m still solvent.  I can always tell them the truth over breakfast.  (If I was the sort of unoriginal putz who used emoticons, I’d wink there.)  If you don’t have a car, then again, avoid the bus.  Take a cab when hitting the town in search of ladies.  It will make a difference.  Remember, Kirk had no problems taking the shuttle now and again.

4) Keep a Clean House. Again, this brings us to the Enterprise.  Not only was it a flying babe magnet, but it also served as a plush crib.  (Do kids still say “crib?”  Do kids still call each other “kids?”)  Once an Orion slave girl was in Kirk’s captains quarters, she was all his.  In the blessed event you do bring a woman back home, make sure you’ve already put the Lucky Charms-encrusted dishes in the washing machine, picked last week’s BVD’s off the floor, and for the love of god, made the bed.  And even though we’re all Star Trek fans here, best to put that model of the Romulan drone ship into the closet.  Or trash.

5)  Embrace the Exotic. This one is literal.  Kirk banged every type of female there was regardless of skin color or home planet.  You may think you have a type and doggedly hold out for only that, but all you’re doing is making what could be an already-daunting situation even tougher.  Ever notice on countless TV procedural dramas, the hot girl who gets evicerated is a different type from episode to episode?  That’s ‘cause if they killed a blonde cheerleader every show, you’d get bored.  So they kill off a slinky Asian babe one week, a smokin’ black girl the next, a red hot brunette the following ep…you get the idea.  Just so we (and my lawyer) are clear, I’m not suggesting you emulate a serial killer.  I’m just advising you sample from the buffet, and always be ready to try something – or someone – new.

6)  Have a Quip On Your Lip. From the mind of James T. Kirk:  “Mr. Spock, the women on your planet are logical. That’s the only planet in this galaxy that can make that claim.”  See?  The guy’s a riot.  Well, maybe not so much, but he is dryly witty.  Granted, this is not an exact science because humor is subjective.  You like Adam Sandler?  Chances are you do because someone is going to his movies and it sure as shit ain’t me.  On the other hand, I absolutely love the 1987 flop Ishtar.  Yep, I’m that guy.  Anyway, my point is that you can use the same funny line on five different gals and get five different responses.  Stick with the girl who laughs; the others will be too much damn work.

7) Accessorize (within reason). The phaser and communicator aren’t just nifty gadgets, they complete Kirk’s look.  Each is elegant and functional, but not gaudy.  And more important, Kirk doesn’t fuss about with them when getting his mack on.  Yeah, I’m talking to you, junior, always texting or looking up who starred in Early Edition just to impress some co-worker.  (Anyway, it was Kyle Chandler.)  As a rule, turn your phone off and only check for messages every two hours at most.  And if talking to a honey, ignore texts from your idiot friends.  They’re only going to make you look like a weenie, which is their secret plan all along.

Dare to be a Little Dramatic. Let’s not kid each other.  Kirk could be a bit of a showboat.  Hell, he could be the whole damn Mississippi.  Just look at the flourish he put into whipping that communicator open and saying, “Kirk to Enterpriiise.”  And let’s not get started on that wackadoodle reading of “I’m losing command!” he gives when those creepy children take over the ship.  However, a little, repeat, a little flair will convey you have a sense of awareness and style that sets you apart.  Honestly, no one’s better at this than another James, last name of Bond.  Look at the way that son of a b&%! orders a drink.  Think he goes through all that shaken not stirred crap to amuse himself?  Hell no.  It’s to blow Pussy Galore’s foxy little mind.

9)Flaunt Your Hot Chick Friends. After Spock and Bones, who’s next on the invite list whenever Kirk beams down to a new babe-enriched planet?  That’s right — Lieutenant Uhura.  Kirk knows the presence of a fine female at his side will only make him appear yet more desirable.  This may be a tougher one to pull off, ‘cause you actually have to have a hot chick friend to make this work.  But, oh, it pays dividends.  A good looking woman friend of mine (Miss Skokie, Illinois, ’84) once walked up to a babe I had my eyes on and got the girl’s phone number for me!  Dude, that is a superpower only hot girls can use on each other, so it is well worth the time to invest in a friendship or two with an attractive co-worker or classmate.

10) Make Your Life Sound Important. There were many other starships and captains.  But only Kirk dropped that “five year mission” and “to boldly go where no man has gone before” line because it made him stand out.  Okay, it was his show.  But think of your life as your show.  Do you want that smokin’ blonde to think of you as an assistant credit report analyst…or a financial officer? Do you spend the day data-processing…or are you analyzing risks? Are you stuck having to babysit your sister’s kids…or do you work with children? (Women FREAKING love that, btw.)  You’re not lying.  Well, not so much.  You’re just puffing yourself up a bit to impress the girl, but that’s okay.  I guaran-damn-tee you she’s doing the same.

“Mr. Chekov, I know you and Miss Landon find each other fascinating, but we’re not here to conduct a field experiment in human biology.” Star Trek

Now it’s time to put these lessons to the test.  I said at the beginning you can make these ten tips work for you tonight, and I still mean TONIGHT.  You don’t have to use them all.  No slick car or hot female friend?  No biggie. But you CAN put on a jacket and tie (mandatory) and you CAN establish your own sense of style and presence to set yourself apart.  Kirk nails every woman in the universe with the above truisms, but they spring from his own personality.  In short, Kirk is being true to himself.  And you can do the same.

“Worlds may change, galaxies disintegrate, but a woman always remains a woman.”
**  C’mon, he wore an ascot!

This article is dedicated to our hero,
the babe magnet
Captain Kirk, Star Trek

U.S. Weekly TV News Magazine Dateline NBC To Air Human Interest Story About The Hardships of Human Courtship

Dateline investigative reporter Sara James [bio] has spent the greater part of the last two years tracking down various different aspects of the modern-day male and female courting ritual.  With the advent of the internet and the rise of other modern technology, the world has never seen a more confusing and rapidly-changing courtship process.

Join us as Sara takes you across 4 continents spanning from New York City, Tokyo, London  and Buenos Aires for a closer look at how different cultures and other influences like religion and social dynamics dictate the courtship rituals of today.

Sara will also dive into some more murky facets of modern courtship like online dating, the rise of the date-rape drug Flunitrazepam (commonly referred to as “roofies”) and the statistical connection between the popularity of technology-assisted courtship and the rise of date-rape incidents.

Finally, she will take a look at the underground community of the “pick-up artist”.  Following on the heels of the New York Times Bestselling book exposing the secret community in 2005, to a VH1 reality TV show in 2007, to the modern evolution of dating coaches in “Hitch” style that can even give statistical proof that their methods work to attract women, Sara gives an engaging summary and ties in what anomalies like these mean to the status quo for dating.

The question posed by this segment is whether or not the advent of modern courtship tactics and technologies like online dating (a multi-billion dollar industry) have done more to unite us or more to divide us?

Dateline NBC, or Dateline, is a U.S. weekly television news magazine broadcasted by NBC.  Check out http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3032600/ for more information.

You’re 38 years old, give or take a few, you have just gone through the shock of figuring out you are a lesbian…now what? If you are in a position to meet other like-minded women and seek out a relationship, you will most certainly be thinking about dating. And you have to start somewhere: your first lesbian date.
The concept is the same as any date: two people meeting to learn more about each other in order to determine if there will be a second date. Remember this principle…you are deciding on a second date, not on a lifetime commitment. In my experience, many lesbians who do not experience instant sparks on the first date don’t ask for a second date. Don’t put that kind of pressure on yourself or your date. While attraction may be instant, most times love needs time and nurturing to grow. If you are on a date, having a nice time together and seem reasonably compatible, go on a second date. Enjoy yourself.
On the other end of the spectrum, if you do feel an instant attraction on the first date, take it slow. There is an ongoing lesbian joke involving U-Haul rentals following first dates.  If you haven’t heard about that yet, you will. Most times these flash-in-the-pan attractions result in short lived and stormy affairs. Having an attraction doesn’t insure compatibility…that just takes time. Be patient.
OK, so back to first date basics. Who asks for the date? In straight relationships, most times the guy takes the initiative. No more! It’s up to one of you to do it. My advice is to jump in. The sooner you ask, the less anxiety you will have agonizing over the anticipation. You will also develop confidence and it will be easier the next time. Make your invitation to date as personal as possible. In person or on the phone are preferable to e-mail or IMing.
You can either offer to pick up your date or meet up with each other. There are no rules. You may want to consider this, however. Picking up at the home will also mean dropping off at the home later, presenting the possibility of being asked in for a nightcap. This may or may not be desirable, depending on your comfort level after the date.
As in the straight world, expectations of sexual activity following a first date vary widely among lesbians. You should never do more than you are comfortable with. You should clearly state what your limits are if you are feeling pressured. Likewise, don’t pressure your date. That’s just bad manners. It is a good idea to think about your personal limits and desires ahead of time. Kissing is common and if this is your first time kissing a woman and you are nervous, that’s normal. Relax, you’ll be fine! (really fine!)
Paying for the date is the next sticky wicket. Again, no rules. If you have been the one to initiate the date, you may want to pay. Or your date may offer and insist. Or you can split the bill. The only caution here concerns obligation. If you go on additional dates and she continues to insist on paying, she may be really nice, rich and can afford it or she may be trying to set up a controlling relationship. Beware.
There is one really disconcerting thing that I had not foreseen on my first date: the trip to the rest room. When I told my date I needed the facilities she said, “Oh, me too,” and followed me in. It was just a little strange relieving myself, knowing my date was in the next stall!
Remember, the goal of your first date is to learn more about each other, test your compatibility and decide if you want to go on a second date. Keep these points in mind and have a fabulous time! Happy hunting.

Most online dating services are free. The primary premise of a free dating website is to make everything, right from the initial process to the chat, simple and easy. In contrast paid dating sites offer specialized dating services but they are complicated and taxing on the mind. Free dating sites aim to keep it simple to lure the visitor to come repeatedly to the site. These dating services cater to their primary audience. Its core focus lies on having fun, without the investment of money.

Dating Online for the tight pressed

Free online dating is usually preferred by those who don’t have enough liquid cash to invest in a paid dating service. This category also includes college students who are struggling with fees, house rent and grocery bills. These students do not have extra cash to buy new clothes, travel to places to meet new people and explore the possibility of a date. If for some reason, the first date doesn’t work out, the person incurs a financial loss. Free dating online bypasses all this. Now, even if you do not have the money, you can still search and find your dream date.

Selecting the perfect one free of cost

Usually, you have to go through many dates to meet the right one. This is a waste of time and money – money which could have paid your school fees and the grocery bills. Free online dating rescues you in such instances. Now the process of sifting through an array of potential date profiles is absolutely free. You can choose a few profiles to chat online and then select the right one. There is no wastage of time and money. You don’t have to sit through dull dates and wonder how many more you have to go through before finding your perfect partner.

Free talk

Free online dating permits you to talk for hours without any cost. Talking is the best way to find out the ‘real’ personality of a person. In a traditional date, you limit your talk time as the more talk will lead to more time at the restaurant table leading to more money. But this money worry can be swept under the carpet in case of dating online. You can talk about your experiences – have an interactive chat and get to know the real person behind the façade of the date persona. The whole idea is to get to know the person better.

Dating Again?

Suppose you a single going back into the dating arena after some time. Dating online allows you the chance to take things slowly with no obligation. You avoid the risk of any embarrassment by your careful attitude. This is not prevalent in traditional dating which thrusts you into the dating limelight insensitively. Free online dating permits you to exit from a chat gracefully without hurting the other person. It also gives you the chance to discover yourself after a painful breakup boosting levels of confidence, optimism and self reliance.

When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds… then took it away saying, “No hand holding this early”, as if it were her idea… then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it and then when she went to take it, I moved it before she touched me… then did it again… and again saying, “No, really…”

Finally, after the meal was finished, I reached out for her hand, and she wouldn’t take mine because I had teased her so much. So I actually grabbed her hand and held it and massaged it. This was teasing and teasing…and when she finally gave up, I gave it to her.

Then, when I gave her a hug later on, she kissed me on the cheek or neck a couple of times, and I accused her of kissing me a lot, etc. (The idea is that she’s into me and she’s the aggressor.) One part of this is me doing something (holding her hand) and then accusing her of doing it (“no hand holding this early”).

This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to women it’s magic. Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure them out’ early on in the game and have their number… and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do things. This gets them all freaked out, as they feel like you’re in control, and they don’t know what to do next… like you know all the games they’re playing and won’t fall for any of their old tricks… this makes them nervous as they don’t have any POWER OR AMMO!

They love this, as men are hardly ever in control. And they secretly want someone who is. (It’s VERY important not to become the ‘friend/therapist’ with this information… and start kissing their ass! The idea is to use it to bust on them and not to be understanding.)

I also tell women early on that I think they’ll make a nice ‘friend’.

It’s funny to see how the friendship frame works with them, because this gets them thinking often for the first time, “Wow, maybe I just found a man who is smarter than me, knows my little games, and has higher standards than me for once… and now he’s talking about being ‘just friends’! Oh no! Doesn’t he like me? Doesn’t he want me like all the other guys?” A key here is to always keep them guessing… never get too into them or they’ll get right into their old games, etc.

If you’ve gone out with a woman 47 times, and you don’t know if she likes you, and you’re now thinking, “Oh, hey… great idea! I’ll buy her a flower and she’ll feel attracted to me…” then get a new idea.

Romance isn’t a way to make a woman feel attracted to you.

Romance is a way to amplify attraction that is already happening.

Read that last part again… Don’t try to make a woman feel attracted to you with romance!

Attraction is created by factors other than gifts, dinners, flowers, etc.

If she’s not feeling attracted to you, then showing her that you’re attracted to her probably isn’t going to change it… in fact, it may just push her away.

I know, I know… you once heard about a guy who pursued a woman for 9 years until she finally gave in and married him. Well, that might work, but I don’t have 9 years (unless it’s Cindy Crawford… yeah, I know she’s like 50, but she’s still hot).

Earlier I mentioned a couple of great ideas. You can cook her a special meal that has meaning… and tell the story behind it. Stories are romantic, especially if the story contains a love story.

And small gifts can be romantic as well (I don’t like big gifts because they change the dynamic of the relationship and can create all kinds of feelings that it’s a trade of affection for money, etc.).

If you pay attention, a woman will mention something that she really likes. It could be a kind of flower, a kind of music, an author, etc. If you want to be romantic (after you know that she’s attracted to you) you can get something thoughtful then write a card that says, “I was thinking about you, and I found this… thought you would like it. Kiss Kiss.”

Use romance as the spice, and not the main dish. Use it to amplify, not as your main strategy.

Romance combined with the techniques that I teach is a very powerful combination.

Every year hundreds of Ukraine girls marry foreigners. Why do foreigners prefer dating a Ukraine girl to the women in their own country? The reasons are obvious to Ukraine girls. Ukrainian women combine beauty with intelligence, love and independence, as well as the ability to have a great career and be a fabulous housewife. They also have good taste, a sense of humor, a special gift to cook delicious meals, and the good education that makes them idea for marriage and dating.

Most foreigners become acquainted with Ukrainian women through Internet web sites. Dating a Ukraine girl means corresponding for up to several months before the first important meeting. How long should you send letters and correspond before meeting her? There is no definite rule, but dating a Ukraine woman over the Internet may last as little as 2 months or even up to a year. It just depends on many factors. Naturally a Ukrainian lady will expect you to come to meet her as soon as possible if you are writing her daily. If you have a vacation and no plans to do anything, they would love for you to make that first meeting with her then.

When you are dating a Ukraine girl, you should pay attention to how often she writes and how soon she answers your letters. What she writes about herself is important as well, because that will tell you how interested she is in you. If she writes just general information about herself then you should consider continuing the relationship through email and letters. However is she begs you to come to meet her immediately then you should consider the fact that something might be a little fishy.

It could be that the Ukrainian lady is up to something herself, but in other cases it might be the person who is translating messages that is asking you to come quickly. Often Ukrainian women will have a person translate their letters, and if the translator that works for the agency in which you met feels that it is important not to lose a client, they may insert information that the Ukrainian lady did not say. This could be that they want you to meet them. Unfortunately for the Ukrainian women you may show up when they are simply not ready to meet.

Although meeting in most cases is very welcome and usually the idea of the Ukrainian lady, but you both should be ready for it to happen. The general rule of thumb that most Ukraine women imagine is that you will meet off the website, correspond for a few months at least through email and letters, then move on to phone calls, visit with each other at least once for a few days to a week, and then finally end in marriage. When it comes to dating a Ukraine girl, all of these steps are equally important in the process.

How can you know for sure though that she is honest and serious? Here are two tips for you that will let you know. A Ukraine girl will never ask you for money or present. She wants you, not your money. She will also answer all of your questions honestly because if her intentions are serious, she has nothing to hide. However, she will expect you to be as honest as she was.

Ukrainian ladies are known to be sensitive and tactful with a priceless ability to understand and forgive. You shouldn’t hide important facts such as if you are corresponding with other women at the same time. This is definitely the case if you are planning a trip where you want to meet all of them at the same time. If she learns it too late, then she will think she was just a pawn in your game, so you should be honest and upfront. Tell her that she may not be the right lady for you but do it with tact and respect and let her know that you have fun talking to her, but you are corresponding with another lady as well. When dating a Ukraine girl, the main thing is to be honest and make her feel that your intentions are serious.

It is very important to know what questions you should ask so that the person can get a better sense of who the other person is on the other side of the virtual screen.

Below are just some common questions one should ask his/her online friend in order to access the personality of the other person. These questions have to be put forward in such a way that it doesn’t appear to be confrontational.

In addition, those who will ask these questions should be sure that they are also prepared to answer the same.

1. When internet dating for the first time, what is the major error that most people make?

With this question, it give you some idea about how the other person views the opposite sex. In this way, one could get an insight on the attitude of the other person and his/her personal beliefs on some important matters like relationships.

2. What are you looking for when you go on date with a guy/girl?

With this, an individual can know what kind of qualities that the other person is looking for in a companion.

In addition, one should observe how the other person attempts to answer the question. If he or she replies with the usual “sense of humor,” chances are, the other person has not yet thought about the answer.

3. What do you considered as a really successful relationship?

From here, we could see how the other person values relationship. It would be better to hear the other person provide an answer regarding how the two persons who are involved in the relationship should work together as they grow and have a better sense of personality.

4. What is your opinion on internet dating services in the internet?

Through this question, one is able to tell whether the other person had some serious bad experience concerning internet dating and whether he/she is still willing to consider internet dating or not.

5. Did you fail on your last relationship?

Some people may blame the other person in the relationship while some blame them selves too much. It would be better to hear some answers like they (the couple) equally share the blame and that it is just time to part ways.

The purpose in asking these questions is to establish a solid foundation on the kind of personality and attitude the other person has. It is when keeping the communication line open that matters most.

The problem with people in internet dating is that most of them do not have any idea how to carry on a conversation. They do not know what questions to ask and how to assess the answers that they get.

Asking some reliable questions will give the person an edge over a lot of things. As a result, he/she will be able to assert that when the time comes that they have to meet personally, the concerned person will be ready to face his/her online date.

Recent studies have proven the effectiveness of online dating. Dating sites can give people a high probability of having a serious long-term relationship which can ultimately lead to marriage. Many online dating sites have chatrooms in this article we will discuss some safety tips you can use while you’re in those chatrooms.

A chatroom is a good place to meet a potential dating partner, an activity partner, or a friend. Chatrooms are completely anonymous. If you’re having a conversation with someone and you decide you no longer want to continue the conversation, you can end the conversation by exiting the chatroom.

Here are some safety tips you can use when chatting in a chatroom. Listen to your heart, you must use your judgement, if someone sounds obnoxious or if someone offended you in any way. You should report them to the administrator of the online dating site or consider changing your screen name.

You should protect your identity at all times. You must be extremely careful about the amount of information you give while having a casual conversation. You should not give the person your phone number, your home address, your work address, or any other information that will allow the person to track you down. You should never reveal too much personal information about yourself.

You should not use fake photos. If you are going to exchange pictures with someone, you should send them the best picture you have. However, it should be a recent picture which does not distort your true appearance in any way. Try to avoid sending older pictures of yourself in which you may look different from the way you are at the moment. Also try to avoid sending pictures of someone else, doing this will only lead to disappointment later on.

Do not expect too much from a chatroom. If you’re expectations are too high you will only be setting yourself up for failure. There are 2 things you should keep in mind, you have no idea what the person looks like. And you have no idea what type of personality they have.

Going on a date, if you have been chatting online for a while and you have spoken on the phone and you decide to go on a date with someone you met online. Remember you should not let the person pick you up at your place of employment or your home on the first date. It’s best to meet them in a public place where you will be safe and comfortable.

Try to avoid drinking alcohol as this will impair your judgement, you should never let your guard down, you must try to stay alert at all times. You should let someone know where you’re going and who you’re going with.

The Internet is full of online dating services and joining one is not really that hard. The hard part is once you’ve joined actually getting dates. This can become difficult for men in particular so in this article we want to talk about online dating tips that they should know.

First of all, be prepared to do a little bit of waiting. Joining an online dating service does not guarantee that you will immediately get dates. Because of all the contacts that women receive t takes them a while to filter through all the inquiries. For this reason, you need to practice patience if you have not heard back from someone that you are interested in.

You should approach more than one woman and be proactive when doing it. The chances of you getting a response are less if you concentrate on one woman only.

Another thing to do is locate women you are interested in that have common interests of you. This does not mean eliminating everyone who is not exactly what you want. But it is a good idea to try to come up with interests that are similar to yours.

Is important that you create a unique profile. This starts with creating an interesting username. Then list things you have actually done and are interested in that a prospective woman might be attracted to. Your goal is to become memorable, because a woman can look at many different profiles and you want yours to stand out.

You will hear this over and over, but it’s extremely important that you are honest with what you put in your profile. It is not worth risking your reputation down the road to get a date quicker now. Lying is always a bad idea because of some things you will have to go back and correct eventually.

Plus, do you want to feel positive that what you’re reading about a woman in her profile is truthful? I would imagine that you do, therefore, it only makes sense that you return the favor and be honest on yours. Once you do start going out on dates, ou want to be able to relax and be yourself knowing that the person is going out with you because of what you truthfully said about yourself.

This is a few important online dating tips that all men should practice. You have to get in the game, but if you take the time to properly set yourself up at the first it benefit you in the long run.