Q: What are the signs or red flags that we need to look for when we meet someone for a first date? The subtle ones ...not the really obvious ones. A: When a relationship doesn't work out or ends badly, clients frequently ask me if there was something they should have seen in the beginning. The answer is almost always yes. But they were too caught up in the seduction to … [Read more...] about Subtle Red Flags You Should Look Out for When Dating
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Q: How can you tell when someone says they don't want to go out if you should move on, or are just playing hard to get? A: Girls who still subscribe to “the rules” may be playing hard to get. The rules said you had to put a guy off and make him work for it. In my opinion you only need to do that with players. But I do believe that a girl needs to keep an active social … [Read more...] about Are They Not Interested in Dating, Or Are Just Playing Hard to Get?
Question: How do I get rid of anger I have for past boyfriends who broke my heart? I am particularly angry at the men who said we would get married and without any warning ended the relationship and immediately started dating other women before our relationship was officially over, making me feel like a fool. My anger comes from the lack of remorse they feel for what they did … [Read more...] about Dealing With the Anger of a Breakup. How do I Move Forward?
Question: I have been dating this woman she has some stress from past debt, her job currently doesn’t cover her personal loans and credit card balance. How much of a concern should this be for us moving forward? Answer: First off, I’m glad she’s being honest with you. If you’re serious about planning a future with this woman, she needs to show you she has changed the … [Read more...] about Debt and Relationships. How to Handle Dating Someone With Debt
Question: I met a man who told me he would never cheat. Quickly into dating he asked me to move in with him. One month after I moved in with him he got distant, saying he looks at other women and I must not be the one, if he does. What should I do, everyday he gets more and more distant and I miss who he use to be and when he wasn’t so distant. Answer: It sounds like he … [Read more...] about Living With a Commitment Phobic Cheater