The shock of being threatened with a knife by his twenty-three year old wife Charlene hit Jackson really hard. He arranged a separation from Charlene to recover, and to begin to feel safe again. The toughest moments came when he wanted to hear her voice that had encouraged him so often. Growing up in a home with a devouring mother who put him down when he wanted to think and … [Read more...] about Five Ways to Create and Maintain Stability In Relationships with BPD Partners
Advice for Men
If you look at your past relationships can you see many similar qualities in your ex’s, even though they were different kinds of people? If so, you might either be choosing the unhealthy version of same type, or you might just be choosing a type that doesn’t match for you. As explained in the video, if you are choosing someone that doesn’t force you to grow, or is just easy … [Read more...] about Learn How To Choose a Better Partner For You.
Finding the love of your life is an incredible high, especially if on some level you view him or her as above your typical dating league. So naturally, when it doesn’t work out or worse, it suddenly ends without warning, it may feel like you will never find anyone better. However, it is only that kind of thinking that will prevent you from finding anyone new—I promise … [Read more...] about Breakup Advice – Are You Finding it Hard to go on Without the Love of Your life?
When couples dating or married get into arguments it is important to fight fair. Not fighting fair can really damage a relationship. The minute a couple can embrace fighting fair when an argument arises their relationship will grow to be stronger and both parties will see the other partner has the other partner’s best interest in mind . Below is a list of do’s and don’ts … [Read more...] about Understanding How to Fight Fair When Relationships Have Tense Moments
Ask 100 or so women about sexual desire and you’re sure to hear some amazing stories. One will calmly tell you she had sex three times a day with her husband of twenty years, even though she would have preferred coupling much less frequently. Another will tell you she never felt desire at all for her first husband, and in fact never experienced an orgasm until she was 82 … [Read more...] about Understanding the Nature of Desire