When you're in the middle of an argument or power struggle, conflict resolution is often counter-intuitive - what you should do is often the exact OPPOSITE of what you feel the most compelled to do in the moment. The good news is, there are specific skills you can learn to dismantle arguments and help overcome power struggles in your relationships. Instead of repeating … [Read more...] about Learn How to End Recurring Conflicts in Your Relationships
Instant chemistry blows away our best interest sometimes - it messes with our "man-picker" and it works against us. In other words, people often choose chemistry over the whole package. Chemistry alters our perception and causes us to attach meaning to things that are often inaccurate. For example, if you feel instant chemistry with a man, you may assume that he's available … [Read more...] about The Dangers of Instant Chemistry in Dating
When it comes to the type of men you're attracting - you can see the progression of how you’re doing on the inside by the men who are showing up in your life. Suppose you’re used to attracting men who hurt you – if men keep showing up who want to hurt you, you know you’re not healed yet. But as the more “boring” guys start to show up, you’re getting healed! They may not … [Read more...] about Single Still? Do You Feel You Can’t Seem to Find the Right Man and Right Relationship? This Might Be Why.
Here’s a question from Jessica, who’s experiencing something we can all relate to. The Question: “Hi Helena, It seems like all the men I date always end up disappointing me in some way. It starts off great, and then after a couple weeks they either say the wrong thing, forget to call, or they seem to get busy and stop making plans with me and everything just fizzles … [Read more...] about Dating Advice: Who You Are Attracting and How You Can Improve on it
These guidelines will help you navigate through online dating and help you attract the right kind of man: * DO keep your emails short when responding to potential matches. Two or three sentences is fine. The same goes for filling out your online profile, try to answer the questions without being too lengthy. * DO give nice guys a chance, even if they are not your physical … [Read more...] about Online Dating Tips for Women